Why Mormons Leave

The reasonsDoctrine and belief

Doctrine and theology

The single most common major factor. Respondents stopped believing what the Church teaches about God, salvation, obedience, and its own exclusive authority.

Temple Square, Salt Lake City, 1899 retouched · William Henry Jackson · Public domain

What members were taught

The gospel has been restored in its fullness and does not change. Prophets speak for God; when they speak, the thinking has been done. Doctrine is eternal; only policies and programs adjust. Families sealed in the temple will be together forever if they keep their covenants.

What the record shows

The single most common major factor. Respondents stopped believing what the Church teaches about God, salvation, obedience, and its own exclusive authority.

Three out of four respondents named this as a major factor, more than any other item on the survey. The authors acknowledged that "doctrine" is a broad word, and the written comments show it covering several distinct things.

For some it was a specific teaching they could no longer accept: that God would withhold priesthood by race, that a woman's eternal role was to be one of several wives, that a loving Father would separate families forever over a Word of Wisdom question. For others it was the architecture. A God who created billions of people and revealed the only path to exaltation to a few million of them, mostly in the American West, struck many as implausible on its face. "The god I believe in," one respondent wrote, "does not operate through just one approved church that reaches only a minuscule percentage of humanity."

For still others it was the instability. Members are taught that doctrine is eternal and that policy changes; but polygamy, the ban, and Adam-God were all taught as doctrine by prophets and are now described as something less. Respondents who tried to pin down what the Church actually teaches found that the answer was whatever the current leadership said, and that the previous leadership's teachings could be discarded without anyone admitting they had been wrong.

Doctrinal disbelief was also the strongest predictor, among all the reasons, that a person would leave rather than stay. Members who lost faith over history sometimes kept attending. Members who stopped believing the teachings were about a quarter more likely to be gone.

In their words

“No, I left because the church claims aren't true. And I chose to drink beer as soon as I put two and two together and realized that all the claims of prophecy and leadership and all those other things were just more signs along the way: this is another manifestation that this isn't God's church, that it isn't being led by inspiration.”

Amy Malouf, asked whether she left in order to sin; she and her husband were excommunicated in Anchorage, Alaska Mormon Stories 657 at 1:06:47, 2016. Hear it · Episode

“If God asked you to kill me, would you do it? Who do you love more, me or God? If I left the church, would you still love me? If God said you had to give up one of your eight children, who would you give up? If I was gay, would you still love me? If the prophet told you to kill me, would you do it? If I don't feel the spirit, is there something wrong with me?”

Annie Marie, The questions she asked her parents as a child. Mormon Stories 2180 at 19:50, 2026. Hear it · Episode

Quotes are taken from machine-made transcripts of Mormon Stories interviews and may contain small transcription errors. Each links to the moment in the recording so you can hear it for yourself.

What people actually name

From the crowd-sourced 2014 comprehensive list, lightly edited.

  • No clear standard for what is actually doctrine; teachings called eternal in one decade are called opinion in the next.
  • Doctrines that changed and were then said never to have been doctrine at all (polygamy, the priesthood ban, Adam-God, blood atonement).
  • A plan of salvation in which the exclusive path to exaltation has reached a tiny fraction of humanity.
  • Teaching that all other churches are an abomination and their creeds corrupt, while describing the Church as ecumenical.
  • {'The eternal family doctrine experienced as a threat': 'families divided in this life by fear of separation in the next.'}
  • Scripture and prophets depicting God as commanding genocide, threatening Emma Smith, and cursing people by skin color.
  • Proxy ordinances for all the dead, understood as an enormous expenditure of time and money on a premise respondents no longer believed.
  • Obedience to leaders equated with obedience to God, with personal revelation valid only when it agrees.

What the Church has said