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Never really in
The largest group of people who leave were never fully converted or integrated to begin with. They are not who this site is mainly about, but no honest account of Church attrition can leave them out.

What members were taught
Convert baptisms are the measure of the Lord's work moving forward. Every baptism is a soul saved. The Church is the fastest-growing religion in the world and will fill the earth.
What the record shows
The largest group of people who leave were never fully converted or integrated to begin with. They are not who this site is mainly about, but no honest account of Church attrition can leave them out.
This site is mostly about people who believed, deeply and for a long time, and then stopped. The 2011 survey screened for exactly that population, and its findings do not describe anyone else. But the 2014 comprehensive list opens with a different group, and calls it probably the largest single one: people who were never really converted or integrated in the first place.
Every estimate of Church activity points the same way. The Church reports over seventeen million members of record. Independent researchers, working from census self-identification, sacrament meeting attendance, and the Church's own unit counts, put the number who actually attend at somewhere between a quarter and a third of that, and lower in Latin America, Africa, and Asia, where most baptisms now happen. The gap is made of people who joined and left without a crisis of faith: converts baptized after a few lessons who found no community waiting, children of record whose families drifted, and members in countries where the Church built few chapels and trained few local leaders.
The reason to mention them here is honesty. Believing members sometimes point to this group to explain all departures: they were never really converted. The survey shows that explanation does not fit the people it is usually applied to, the returned missionaries and bishops and Relief Society presidents who left after decades. But the group is real, it is large, and it says something of its own about how the Church grows.
What people actually name
From the crowd-sourced 2014 comprehensive list, lightly edited.
- Converts baptized quickly, sometimes within weeks of first contact, who never attended again.
- Baseball baptisms and similar practices in which missionaries baptized children and young people with little instruction.
- Members in the developing world baptized in large numbers with little retention.
- Children of record who were blessed as infants and never participated.
- Members carried on the rolls for decades after they stopped attending, since the Church does not remove anyone who does not formally resign.
More episodes on this, ranked
Mormon Stories interviews where this comes up most, beyond the ones chosen above.
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A Ukrainian Mormon Story – Ksenia Andrukhiv Everton | Ep. 1557Mormon Stories 1557, 2022 · 24k views · hear a moment at 2:48:14
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418: Conversions: Two Family Stories from the Reformation and Modern America with Craig HarlineMormon Stories 418, 2013
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The Australian Queen’s Counsel who raised the Bar on Mormonism – Neville Rochow | Ep. 1536Mormon Stories 1536, 2022 · 16k views · hear a moment at 16:54
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609-611: Mormon Stories Europe LaunchesMormon Stories 609, 2016
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David Archuleta’s Mom Tells Her Mormon Story – Lupe Bartholomew | Ep. 1810Mormon Stories 1810, 2023 · 170k views · hear a moment at 33:07
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How a Mormon Mission President Lost His Testimony: Roger Hendrix Pt. 2 – | Ep. 924-926Mormon Stories 926, 2018 · 17k views
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